Your First Meet

• It’s always best to decide how and where you would like your first meet to be.  Undoubtedly you will be nervous, so you need to decide where you will feel the most comfortable.  Some people prefer to meet up in a pub for some drinks and see if everyone gets on, and if you do then take it further.  Other people prefer to meet in their own house or at a hotel.  It’s up to you to decide where when and how. 

•  Always talk your rules through with the other couple or single guy/girl so that before any play starts everyone knows how far it can go.  This doesn’t have to be a serious discussion it can simply be bought up in the conversation over drinks.  It prevents any awkward situations later.