Who gets invited to a swingers party?

Private swingers parties tend to be mainly a couple only affair, however the couple who organise that party may well invite a few select single males who they trust to respect people’s wishes.  Most other couples, even if they don’t participate in playing with single males will respect the decision of the party host and trust their judgement.

Parties held at clubs can vary.  Some clubs have nights where singles are welcome, and other nights where only couples are allowed entry.  It is up to individuals which nights they think they would prefer attending.