What if I meet someone I know?
This question occurs to just about everyone who is involved in swinging at some time or other. The common answer is, “Anyone you meet is there too!” Of course, you’ve already thought of that. You worry, though, that others might not be as discreet as you or might not have as much to lose from public exposure. There are two reasons not to be overly concerned.
First, people who are indiscreet typically have very short careers in swinging. They don’t get invited back to parties and are quickly barred from clubs. Second, if these people tend to talk too much, you probably would have heard them talking already. If you didn’t know that they were swingers, they aren’t likely to tell anyone that you are. If you meet someone you know at a club, they might claim that they are “just looking.” In which case, you can easily make the same claim. If the encounter occurs at a private party, our best advice is to have a good chuckle and enjoy each other. |
